A dear friend, to whom I have great esteem, he writes:
" view that crises are often constructive, tend to make us see things that usually do not know. (Omitted ...) ... but to succeed in this, in my opinion, it is important" not escape "or close doors. "
fully correct approach ... It is no accident: the estimate is extremely well placed and there is absolutely tarnished by my vision of a "Pelino" the most cynical of life ...
crises are usually ... crisis and all.
jump out when we can no longer conceal from ourselves that we know things fine but that deliberately ignore. It 'an accumulation of a compromise after another, until a breaking point that comes without warning, without the creaks that can put us on notice: it happens again then face the situation that we do not like, yet another compromise downward, the ennessimo step back when you wanted to maybe make someone more ... all turns in yet another disappointment that you just can not handle upside down and sending the precarious balance of compromises, however, poorly digested! Obviously I'm 'talking about myself ... absolutely nothing is more subjective view of the facts of life.
I have no idea how to get out or rather I would say that I came to the conclusion that it comes out ... it floats, it breaks out not to drown, you go forward with difficulty, whether we like it or not, however, delivered on time. I'm not the idea that tackling a problem at all costs is the solution, I think it is good or bad a solution as many others.
--- What fun is taking a turn! the fire call and response via email ... improper use of the instrument as is more diventado a chat! Anyway (I digress as usual) ... carry forward the dialogue in rapid sequence ... is certainly an interesting exercise:
A. " if never look out the window, you'll never see the view that it is good or bad, like it or not. "
Me:" Still, I like your answers telegraph! ... sounds like a session where the analyst crazy (I) speak at random and chaining a series of freewheeling stubidaggini ... while the wise man (you) is short and meaningful attempts to bring the poor demented team (me) to a best-case scenario "ground" eheheh! From the window I watch a lot ... perhaps too would it be worth taking to the streets and do some 'walk ... "
Me:" Well ... whatever the answer: wisdom or experience ... does not change the final result always remain ... insane :-) ... and then do not say that the daughter of experience and wisdom? "
A." and given the fact our old age I can not confirm that experience "
Me:" But the experience can teach or not ... and the wisdom and experience introjected, you are wise for me ... for myself are just stunned! "
A." There are white and black, but they are so rare to see that we can hardly appreciate, and enjoy continuous gray scale. "
Me:" Right ... grays ... yes .. beautiful ... yes yes ... but sometimes "stuppa" and one or more strokes of life, even brutal to help overcome the crisis and move a bit '... the fragatura maybe it's all there ... we try to look for the white stir emotions and lives ... and we are facing a black wall! ... Nasata catastofica! "
A.: then take the crayons and color the gray. There is, however, we must do more and we still
A.: then take the crayons and color the gray. There is, however, we must do more and we still
Me:" if I remember correctly my markers to elementary and junior high were always dry! Was it a sign of destiny? You certainly right in saying that goes as he goes, we have to color our lives, have the right colors, not bothered by the (mis) use, or more simply be more or less able to use the right color, or more like, at the right time without being smeared or to daub all hands ... Well I feel a little 'to myself elementary drawing pad all Sbaffi and the blue sky and green leaves with red hands and apron rainbow ... the end I know that going back to good old black and white with all its greyness may be the only solution "
